Dying from a Broken Heart

Heart Break May Lead to Heart Failure

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When one spouse dies, many times the other is quick to follow. People have said it's because they died of a broken heart. Researchers now say that may be true.

People write love songs about it. Poetry talks about it. Most people have heard others say it. But is it really possible to die from a broken heart? Yes, says a recent study. People really can die of a broken heart, and the researchers now think they know why.

“When you think about people who have died of a ‘broken heart,’ there are probably several ways that can happen,” said Ilan S. Wittstein of the Johns Hopkins School of Medicine in Baltimore, whose findings appear in a February 10, 2005, New England Journal of Medicine. “A broken heart can kill you, and this may be one way.”

Trauma Leads to Heart Failure

The study notes that “a traumatic breakup, the death of a loved one, or even the shock of a surprise party can unleash a flood of stress hormones that can stun the heart, causing sudden, life-threatening heart spasms in otherwise healthy people,” researchers reported.

The broken-heart phenomenon triggers what appears to be a classic heart attack, putting victims at risk for potentially severe complications and even death, according to the research conducted at Johns Hopkins. But proper medical care can mend the physical aspect of a broken heart and avoid long-term damage.

While no one can pinpoint how often this happens, researchers suspect it is more frequent than most doctors realize. What researchers do know, however, is that it occurs primarily among older women and is usually mistaken for a traditional heart attack.

Woman Dies from Broken Heart

According to an article on WebMD, a chief medical examiner described a situation that had all of the hallmarks of a fatally broken heart. This medical examiner had recently performed autopsies on an octogenarian couple who died on the same day. The man, with a long history of heart disease, was found dead out in his farmyard.

“His wife, dead a shorter time, was found on the front porch, at an angle showing that she would have seen her husband’s body,” says the WebMD article. “Next to her was the bell she had brought to summon him to the lunch sitting on the table inside. Her autopsy showed no obvious cause of death other than a heart that had stopped.”

The New England Journal of Medicine study also notes that a spouse’s risk of death after a traumatic loss of a loved one remains increased for two years.

Dying from Grief

Suffering doesn't have to claim the lives of people in grief. There are ways to cope, including:

  • Finding support to deal with the loss; support groups are there to help people get through the loss,
  • Asking friends and family to check in from time to time,
  • Grieving. It's a part of life. Don't look upon it a weakness. Everyone dies. And everyone grieves at some point.
  • Visiting the family doctor to ask for help, medication if needed, and a check up.

While many can and will die from the unexpected death of a loved one, many can be saved from the grips of grief. Getting help is the first step.

For more information about grief and loss, go to Life After Loss or WebMD.

Kathy Jesperson , John Fekete

Kathy Jesperson - Kathy Jesperson is veteran journalist with more than 18 years’ experience. She has written about environmental health, water ...

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Jan 25, 2010 11:44 AM
Guest :
What about dying from years and years of depression? Can this happen because the heart can simply take no more?
Jul 27, 2010 12:47 PM
Guest :
My mom died unexpectedly 7 years ago. We had nearly everything in common and while we had an embittered relationship we really loved each other. When she died I felt I died. Soon after hear death I was diagnosed with diabetes. Then 2 years ago a form of heart failure. Her loss still hurts me immensely. I miss her a great deal every day. I believe that when someone suffers a death of a loved one it can affect them in every way. They don't have the will or desire to care for themselves. No exercise, they don't eat right or sleep well. I think this article is a good one.
Aug 21, 2010 12:57 PM
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I am in the process of knowing the love of my life has a terminal illness and at this moment i feel like my heart is breaking. I know i should be strong for him but I can't be because all I am thinking about is how will i survive without his love and support. I truely know my world is going to be empty without him, if dying of a broken heart is true then i do feel as if I'm slowly dying with him.
Aug 29, 2010 6:16 AM
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Again, I think it's an excellent article. I've had many losses but none as devastating as losing my mom. It's been an uphill battle doing what my doctors want me to. But I have found that if I find a purpose in life by helping others, eat, drink, exercise properly (no matter how I feel) plus take time to rest and relax it seems to help. I'll never get over losing her. All I can do now is live a life that she would be proud of. It took a long time for me and my vacuum cleaner to even "be on speaking terms" but I've made great progress. My glucoses have very much stabilized and I take one task at a time, one day at a time and one breath at a time if need be.
Feb 19, 2011 8:42 AM
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I am 47 and have lost my entire family. 1 brother, 2 sisters and a 2 yr. old niece. My mother has terminal lung cancer and is finished with treatments. I can tell you I KNOW I am dying with her. I have nothing left to hang on for. SO yes.....I AM dying of a broken heart because I no longer can hang on.
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