Traditional wedding gifts can – surprisingly be some of the hardest to choose. Contending with the fear that other guests may have purchased similar gifts along with the challenge of making a tradition gift personal causes many people to shy away from giving such gifts. However, traditional gift ideas are some of the best, often being gifts that the couple will appreciate and be able to use for years.
Tips for Picking Out a Traditional Wedding Gift
Traditional wedding gifts are a good choice, especially for young couples who may not have already purchased everything they need for their new home. It is important to note the couples' tastes. The first thing to decide is whether to go with classic or modern tastes, simple or complex designs, and if there are any hobbies or activities that would have an impact on gift selection – such as being very social, active, or environmentally conscience.
In general and when possible, the more expensive designs should be given preference when choosing traditional wedding gifts. This helps ensure a quality item the couple can use for years and also provides a designer touch that the couple can be proud to have in their new home. Lastly, it is best to avoid kitchen appliances unless they are specifically on their gift registry.
Kitchen and Dining Gifts
Nothing is more classic than practical kitchen and dining ware that the couple can use for years. In the flatware and dish department, a nice set of flatware is the perfect choice. A designer set of flatware can be set out for special occasions and will be used for years, if not decades. For the more modest budget, a large set of more reasonably priced silverware will provide matching serving spoons, forks, and specialty items along with the practical everyday items.
For plates and bowls, the first place to check is their gift registry. Often the couple will have a very specific style in mind, one that may match pieces they already own. If not, then a designer set of tableware for special occasions is an option. This may not be practical if the couple moves often – such as being on the verge of finishing school, changing jobs, or being in the military. It is best to avoid giving everyday use dishes unless the couple has specified a set or design they prefer. In addition, glasses – from regular drinking glasses to wine glasses to bar items – should only be given if the couple is going to be hosting plenty of parties. Glasses are an often over-given and under-used wedding gift. For social couples, a large set of wine glasses or mixed drink glasses – such as martini or margarita – may be ideal as gifts.
The final dining gifts to consider is table linen. This includes tablecloths, table runners, napkins, and table mats. In general, avoid tablecloths and table mats. However, table runners are an ideal gift, especially a set of different designs. The couple can use these with tablecloths or without, making it a very versatile and stylish item. Nice napkins for use on special occasions are another good choice. With napkins, monogramming the couple's initials is a nice way to make this most traditional of gifts personal.
Bed and Bath Gifts
Gifts for the bathroom and bedroom are often overlooked, providing an entire area of gift choices that will be appreciated. While purchasing bedding usually isn't an option – as most guests don't know the bed size of the wedding couple – throws and blankets shouldn't be overlooked. A nice blanket can be used both as a functional unit and as a decoration over the back of a couch. A king-size quilt or a detailed, quality bedspread can be used on any size bed, especially as a decorative piece.
If choosing bath towels, go with high quality choices and brands. Bath towels can be a luxurious but useful item, if chosen correctly. Monogramming a set of bath towels is another option to personalize this gift. Also include matching wash clothes and hand towels. Avoid giving items such as shower curtains, bath robes, or bath floor mats.
Home Decor Gifts
The choices in home decor are endless, as attested to by the variety of stores that sell home items. There are a few good choices and a few traditional items that should be avoided in most cases. Vases – even Waterford ones – should be avoided. Clocks and picture frames should only be chosen with extreme care and a good understanding of the couples' preferences.
Candelabras are a wonderful option for all couples. This includes both stand-alone units and wall-hanging ones. Find a unique and classy gift that can be used as a centerpiece or wall decoration for years. A candelabra takes the traditional gift of candle holders and adds class and functionality to it.
A single large bowl can be used in the kitchen or dining room as a practical piece or in the living room as a decoration piece. It is best to find a unique piece that has a classic design, as – hopefully – this item will be used for years. To add a personal touch to the gift, include some candies, candles, or (carefully wrapped) crystal Christmas ornaments inside of the dish.
Traditional for a Reason
Traditional gifts have been given to couples for decades, and in some cases, centuries. There is a tradition of giving these gifts for a reason – they are practical and can be enjoyed for years. For every budget and for every taste, there are a variety of gift options that will be sure to please the happy couple. Choosing a traditional gift helps guarantee giving a gift that will be appreciated, useful, and long-lasting.
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